Judgemental

Judgemental = characterized by a tendency to judge harshly (MWebster Online) 

Sometime, I am amaze by the ability of our society in judging others.

I don't know either they are too perfect or what. 

But the way I see it, there is always a reason behind every actions.

A person cannot just explode and start to curse if there is nothing to curse about (unless if you're drunk). 

A girl didn't just born and became a lesbians.

A boy didn't just turn into a 'woman' right after they are born (unless if khunsa).

For example,

Situation 1 : Obesity

A : You must have eaten a lot right?

B : No I did not.

A : Then why is your stomach get so big? is it because of bloating?

B : No.. it is not bloating..

A : Hmmmph! This must be because you take bribe.. bribery is 'haram'! and living with that kind of money can make you FAT!

B : No I am not! I am pregnant.. and you are going to be a father.

A : O_O
(This example is taken from matluthfi90's vlog on YouTube)

Well, see?

There is always a reason behind every action and situation. 

That is why we shouldn't judge people because of who they are.

What is worst about our society is, 

that when these people want to turn good,

these judgemental people, never give them a chance!

They keep on criticizing these people in everything they do..

For example :
A : I am so sorry for what I have done before.. I know I am bad.. But I want to change..

B : Eh? weird.. You don't have to pretend to be good!!! We know who you are! you are a bitch! And a bitch will always be a bitch! Go to hell bitch!

.....

Sort of like that.

This is what I meant by not giving them chance to change.

Our society will keep on judging till the very end 

and because of those words, 

these people always think that it is no use for them to turn into a new leave.

Well, I am not perfect myself.. Nobody is..

but that is not the point.

If these problematic people try to change,

we should encourage them!

and not to judge them and discourage them. 

Maybe at first, they are not serious in changing..

But if we encourage them,

maybe they could have change for real.

We don't know.

So please, try.

xoxo

me

Sorry~

Because of my own laziness, in the end,
my blog page become a neko (cat) page with the pitter-patter of cat paws on it..
I am so sorry if you don't like it..

well, it my blog..
so who cares?
nobody read it anyway~
huhu

xoxo
me

WHAT HAVE I DONE???!!!

I am so sorry!!
what have i done to you my blog???
i did not intend for the layout to change like that..
why didn't i make a backup beforehand??

tomorrow is waiting for me..
i'll try to fix you tomorrow..
ok?

xoxo
me

The Irony in Friendship~

Sometime, when we lost something,
it means that we are going to receive something even more than what we lost.
but it only happen SOMETIMES... :)

you know, during the three semester of my life in UiTM Alor Gajah, Melaka,
a lot of things happens..
things that we wish to happen.. also things that we want to avoid..
but things happen..
and we cannot take back the things that have been done..

I lost a friend.. you know..
but who knows that after all that painful moment...
I met even more friends..
that I can really call friends..
those who are really there when I am in a pinch
and also when I am in my crazy, happy mode! :)

well, if you are not sincere to be with someone,
somehow your true colour will eventually appear..

lastly, I just want to say..
appreciate your friends and love them for who they are..
because if you can accept them for who they are..
they will accept you back for who you are! :)

don't expect them to accept you for who you are
when you keep on complaining about what you dislike in them.
if you do,
you, eventually, will be abandoned by them....
slowly...
one by one will leave you..
and when you realize it,
you have already moved from one clique to another..
trying to find someone who will accept you in their clique.

oh.. the irony...
I hope you are happy with the way you live now..